Hi,
Could you please provide more information.
- Detailed version of your exchange server, Get-ExchangeServer | select Admindisplayversion
- Are you trying to add a new domain? Please refer for adding accepted domains https://video2.skills-academy.com/en-us/exchange/mail-flow/accepted-domains/accepted-domain-procedures?view=exchserver-2019
- You can create email address policy to stamp the email addresses, please refer https://video2.skills-academy.com/en-us/exchange/email-addresses-and-address-books/email-address-policies/email-address-policies?view=exchserver-2019
- Different level of limits can be configured, https://video2.skills-academy.com/en-us/exchange/mail-flow/message-size-limits?view=exchserver-2019