Hi!
I did a test in my environment. The reason why you cannot find the Skype meeting Add-in in outlook is you disabled the Skype meeting Add-ins. You can try to enable it in the outlook and then you can see it.
Please make sure that your outlook account is the same as your Skype for Business account, or you cannot schedule the Skype meeting in the outlook client.
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